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you see the gui force the response and you can walk around the totalconfidence because you don't have any approach anxiety about doing that and once you forced the response you know exactly what level of pain youneed united for from doing it for a while you get more more confident you can also do things that before youeven approach they raise your values so that the response is more likely to bebetter

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whether she wants to talk in that moment when you do something nonverbal she does not font processes she doesn'tneed to think she just thinks into while i've been so much and is this is it fun is it playful thingabout my friend on some of that and she looks and she smiles in the kind of doesthat so this is stephen is fun this playful skills kids if he wasn't on singing just by walkingtowards up just think about all this

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price offer all of those situationshappen and the funny thing is that i canhonestly tell you the third about a year-and-a-half i have not had that happen i've not had a girl drag the golaninterest of the way i've not had any situation be destroyedby other people in the group i realize that before realize what wasactually doing to make that happen what i'm trying to do is i'm trying togenerate instant report with goals and i'm trying to blow outthe rest of the group

why would dissolve approach i know yousunk with the mile-an-hour risky opener on approach to go and i'll say hey how if you've been and also that loudly and when i do that one of the rest of the group thing they think we know each other so then they relax

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i can handle this but if i look at our inches come smiling is happy to see the guy what do i think they all ok they knoweach other and i might even let them talk and thenit becomes obvious is hey how if you've been hundred-percent i'm going to let themtalk and i might even sells some skin garboffer was going to get a drink and let them talk

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now this time the in the club and there's the billwith the guy something's not quite right seems likehe's interested in her but she's not so interested in him but she's drinking some champagne cited you know maybe spore drink ands and i'm looking at the summer mcconnellwhat that go force the i live from a distance

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when the first set with setting up the next one there maybe sell one bed and we'd agent how responsive they'reall going to be when we walked to that mexico will kinda woke him up there's no nervousness because we knowit's going to work so we just right over their total confidence the other guys in the ball call do thatbecause they aren't sure and if it is the low balance short mightshow for in some way

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and are you really going to thissmoothly in that situation you might not do it so this another case where you can missthose opportunities and have regrets saw the ought to develop a bunch of newways to escalate anne's they are not verbal they'llnonverbal okay so what you say does not matterwhen it comes to this the funny thing is you know i've watchedrising field you know i'm watchin and i were always a faint why is it notworking

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i'm actually sexually interested in themight want to go to the case i'm going to start making a few changes if you look at the way i'm talking nowhe has put on the scale you put it in a zero because i could be talking to a guy right i could be talking to a family member there's nothing in the way i'm talking bit shows there there's nothing sexual there till

and so i need to change that so i'm going to do is i'm going to do afew things i'm going to slow down the way down to him i'm gonna smooth i'm also going to look ahead differently so might glanced down at her mouth dot and i'm going to look at her like awoman her

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you know that's currently in charlottejust by the way you look up you're not going to be groping agrabbing that none of that stuff just in the way you look at sperry simple is just a few elements yougo from talking normally being a bit slower but smoother change in the way you look at her and the key thing the you need to do

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the law of cause blood so if you think about it let's go to backslide zero to a hundredscale and let's talk about you know if you're talking to your yourfriend in the ball you've invited about all you have probably made did you seeany local cocoon if that's how you do it because that'sthe right now let's try and find out in a bit by bit and get close to ahundred

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you know slow down or not i don't getthat stuff because they only come if you know i'mtalking to go on the murder behind the schedule on a common luncheon i don't think that's it doesn't happenit never happens if you escalate from zero to a hundred one increment at a time an increment every seconds or whatever and he did that smoothly she's going to go with it

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it stays there and buys because it's a gradual thing if you discriminate jump right out so what you're doing with the goesyou're actually not giving her any situation which she has to the sides yesor no is just happens there's nothing she can do about it should go with it so you will get goals

newberry kiss girls the would definitely say no in many other situations and saw talks about the first thingbeing verbal while the second thing being escalation there's another element values when itcomes to escalation that i think is really really powerful arens weakens did something

about that list that's because they so with stand down in the club and i'm talking to you guys and wouldyou say that i'm talking chinna sexual way or and if we were having a conversationabout well you know i'm in sweden and will be here a few days i'm good singleway that's real less less chemical how would you characterize that interaction yep so you put it like there is a rightin terms of sexual

sexual content less imagine you would her friends inthe club what would you think of this interaction would you think that thereis is pretty safe and you don't need toworry about myron miniatures not suddenly going to meetthe club with me yet cool art soon what was going on in behinds there

how and all right michael gillen demonstrate something knew all of you in the room you still mister that means no one else in the club wouldsee that girls have a good gopal and about philpott they enjoy sex

they like man is exciting to me and i valentine you on all that stuff but they still say no doesn't make sense does it where does because they did go part so their ways fighting between the goodsgopal and thereby philpott give billions situation we know that go wants it but she won't give it

she's there and images she may be less secure so that you won'tlet you do anything else even though you can so she's ten dollars she likes me annual been in that situation good go verses by dole right harris comein on what you're doing in this situation is you are not putting her in asituation which units they yes or no okay i'm going to be about to go

you're talking to the good skull i know exciting about sco at the same time you not triggering those responses women need to say no because main keep pushing right they keep mission and then there's someplan with a woman says nonstop so she's condition with that response women conditions unite if you can't runsuch a business is not what you doing

which i think about what you they hadstomach not what you're doing that that conditioned to do that becausethis happens you know many many times may get condition say now that somepoint what the man is still in there iseas he's been a full on the escalation he's pushing hogs so she has a sheaths just to react in some way although it should be bear the slidewhich is you just want to went along with the everytime with every guy so shegets condition say no in the law

situations i'm not sure any of those responses i'mnot triggering any of those loans if i were talking so much bed she is the old something's happened andhe's been exciting sinectis maple that slowing down men are in the off the one thing i stopthat you're moving fall semester mo in frontof my friends million different examples of ways shemight

respond negatively to that if you do a full on escalation when i do this when i do i cu multilevel communication on physically escalating and verbally and has been plain valium in control look at me and it's not like um unite

seem really excited or not i seem like a more under control revenue normal conversation but she's enjoying it so she doesn'tfeel question is the same thing so she can quietly enjoy it she knows that friends are going tothink she's bad but we've got the secret thing goin onand that's really exciting and turning around

and it's going to work and are a member with both of your new treatments one where i i interviewed column that'she's like a is the son of george best the famousfootballer and in london he kind of goes out swathof clouds and gets free drinks he's kind of a being this celebrity in london and sorrow member once i'm when

we were in a inept call he was in thefront seat with the driver and i was in the back seat with this girl he was having a conversation with us wewill have a conversation and i was talking very normally buttouching up her leg like that and then on the first part of the pit really that's interesting kind ofproblem and that is talking to a member so what do you think about that and allthe time i'm touching a rock

and if you want science of you this is one that you were there with thedome one minute you know you've gone he's taken a back to the house now's a goalie was interested in they didn't see it he didn't know what was going on because of the secret communication premium it go now mansion

if we'd just been sitting there in front of all you guys hands are carried on doing that think of you know what time on that is that we hear in a pack three in we've got this little sexual thing goingon the road release away from england all interesting third because a lot of while he's beenshipped it was going on baat

there's that secret thing going on so i mean when i was there in if you wouldn't turnaround was there and as i was just by stricken mister clinton with their buffets again as the top spit to that late at night in fact is a touch that is not ambiguous rightyou would not touch a friend like that

but on the other hand it's not somedistant while were you doing you touch my bat anticipating you're not such agoes back to compose your omron the bill as soon as you needa colony there in the right way com walk up to go see hey how you doing them put on the other or you can but you always become walk up to go inside well hey he you who were these goes upfrom on with uh... those guys over that

of course have to introduce you to it before your arm and a straight away it's not stop state is going to trigger any of those badresponses thank you i think dad thank you very much at so that was the next thing i learned when it comes to escalation

escalate from the get go right away based on zero than stay there but run might want to be could lead to ahundred stall in zero and move up smoothly way that she will never reject you and that you get all of the arms and sothe questions of whether she wants to

kiss you without actually going for it you know without all skiing we would've with some girls all sidesare minority and i talked to him and i was like that was totally up for it this one's really show it should be alot hard workers for the agood girlfriends

this one you know she's kind of in themiddle and lo and behold one of the goes what's sick and had togo home and so the one that was really up forthe to the most up for it they state so within those first fewminutes i made that decision and these goes left their friend theylove their friends got it and they stayed in the club with oscarsi want to be with us when the goal is kind of dancing withbarman shizzle unit totally up for it

within five minutes it was possible toclassify and that is only because you put alittle bit of pressure create some sexual tension and you see what happens so two huge things online guys in on this is responsible for tons and tons of integrates finds outand like i said no regrets because you're always going to be doing italways going to be opening who was going to be escalating

never been abenney situations where youblow it and just takes a little bit of practice all the other benefits of that you knowthat you have a need to wing man you never need to occupy a group you don't need to cuz you instantlyisolating so i think you know you don't have to worry about gettingrejected because of what her friends might think you don't have to worry about i gained dragged away this is justamazing

so that's kind of the end of that section i wanted speech and i wantto see something else this clearly different so if you've got any questions on all ofthe stuff i covered now would be the time there's no question so occurring takeeffect but good somewhat one question how doyou handle to certain because you are saluting live on behind to satisfy the different

is firmly death such as that but he says slightly different becauseobviously the other go call do too much shipyard yeah the idea with a t_v_ setis that in a lot of places back bill will giveyou some time together by you need to find out what thelogistical situation is i mean if they live together in this one needs totake a home with something like that and it's just with getting a number in most cases when the city set willtrying to both of them happy and you radio specials for the both ofthem all

nodding inattention what what i would say audacity does the golem interested inand as the other one the third in the first face seconds i want to make thisother one kind of approve of me to look into that one disc at home unit approval so she's not been inbrunette or cause any trouble then www stalled since forever this one on onelooking for his her response so again i'm going to escalates slowly and i wantto see what she does

it's all things are going to set youcould respond in a few different ways she could give you a full attention andtotally ignore her friends in which case united fine all she could be aware that she's a bignor in our friends their friends and board set you know where prison sheet you might belooking at the friend saved that's kind of one looking for in the second situation wishes aware ofthe premise it's going to looking at her a numbers best

or you want to take both of them andunit uh... talked to both of them taken bysomewhere else or whatever find the for situation you can probably escalatewithout one of the friend or just find another man or whatever question pushy there is your saying like ten yearsseeing in the club the girls ready for it was she's alittle bit shy because i find it very difficult too and get the right thing to today'sshinhoster nonverbal signals of of the

female because maybe she looks weird but thenshe well i'm a nice guy kato's something about how do you know if the girls ready forit or not because buys is there's a couple things that the press is goodquestion right how do you how do you really in separate adults signals first thing is that if you just look upif you've only got a contacts as you got a look-see and then does that

sylvester icon set what does that tell you not very much asoul bus way forced the isleye so fussy the gulf and i do something like that you can have a very easily be able tosee how interested she is based on a response and i will be something likethat if it's negative would be something like you know smiling and given a positive response ifthe if this kid in a fizzle wide doing this stronger action

you don't need to be so good at redeemwomen signals as you get better at it you action canbecome less and less strong so make sense so now i wouldn't which ishe's a facial expression and just from now to be able to sell but in the beginning i was doing someclub they don't see that on dana point or unit doing some action this quite strong so it's tall for the strong actions andthen take it down over time

the second thing is that we're trying toescalate from the first moment so if up a list of my life with you need respond dates i will walcott and from the moment i saw walking i will be trying to escalate me no look at you and i'll try and look at you in a sexualway if you've got to live it

and you're comfortable with it you might get cast as soon as i getthere if your not totally comfortable with it i'm like i need to take a while longer i'll tone it down and then build up as i'm interacting with us so you really get the onset of when you

escalate and when you force a strong reaction with your open up and huge mistake this is another thingin ob gyn soviets right now one thing so far of right down this you do not need anykind of signal from her apart from the absence of and negativeone we are looking for is a red light if there's a red light

you stop way your ap from the level ofescalation iraq a red light meaning she moves back kal she starts breaking eye contact lookingfor a friends or something like that that's a red light but the funny thingis goes give different iowa is you can betalking to a goji such as a hair and you're right that you just want to talkto harass my my life united and yoga second-guessing yourself some goes give different ignores theirambiguous learner is always have some

goes just like attention innocent lives there to list off but they don't really meanit so what you're really looking for is justis the red light there were not because hostile to goes that just stand therelike that and they don't give anything away and ia will and i was with signals hospital isamazing stuff and give me any idolize what's going on if i'm escalated she's standing there

what does it mean she's fine she's hota microns housesengaged this is doesn't need to talk to hash itdoesn't you don't need any of that so you don'tneed to be did it we didn't signals apart from the negative ones which are really easy lean back raise the energy level

so where's my friends gone i need to goto the toilet whatever we all know the negative ones thatreally simple i'm guys always ask wall of the female you-know-who the i elisamcconnell with these long lists you know if the cuts that they've when their feet to woodsy if they all skill name if they ask ifisset yeah of course the zawya lies but you do not need them and if you look forthem and you only escalate when you get them you'll probably only gained fiftypercent of the goes you could

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that wants to achieve the same xo lovemake and i feel a lot so you have to place your strengths andthat's what that's why i would suggest yeah butstill in clubs and my view born to be able to him and she said britain would be a hard too having trouble trying and that's why ithink this is not working for the ride days are cramming for a very noisy clubbut like i said there's this guy is on ourteam in london the only do they gain methodical website they gain dot com iswithout data i hate they gain

mhm i'd love night game you perhaps play just ranks fans why used to do anyone the read my booksthey sell well you really get a connecting until this i'm going to buy hardly used anymore but if i did more date game if i hadsituations where i was in conversations with girls i would bust out law thatamazing conversational material and in a nutshell consummate how quickly committees wereconversations dot

normally take like a week and such andthen two minutes realize conversations dot do you have to go to school sometimesnot tool to goes is the thing is is total opposite of theescalation sub is the complete opposite by if you ever want to create a reallypowerful connection with the gulf deeply connects and make a fill out while you know that was likethe most amazing date

meeting first whatever you know dodge ever had in my life then the conversation stuff to really doit best way to explain is like this in your life right now if you had a big decision to make you when it's quit your job and go andstudy something you want to go then travel the world you want to be somereally bakes i think of a big decision

the you might take in your life you might still a lot of people about it but how many people would you generallygenuinely talked to and really have to that hole to hole and get their opinion on whether youshould do it on anyone go higher than very what that means is that you've got freepeople in your life the totally understand you that you're connected with

the reason you talked to them about this is because they would understand you andthey would make the decision they think about it from your perspective if i told you guys right now i want to go and live in the jungle inbrazil what do you think i don't go man this complex there the universal reform bills both welldangerous is it

you'd say why do you think about it that's not so useful to make is on theone though is thinking about doing it right so herein your opinion relating to your life all i could never leave my job behindnada mas maybe i can unite by thoughts of some mostly bagane on straight from my perspective by something you've always wanted to do you know you've what really hard to begreat spirit

do it now before you know if you want tosell down and have kids and stuff has the right time to do it they dont straight from my perspective and that's why that one so three peopleyou're loved us while you talked to them when you have a difficult decision tomake they are also made so whatever they areyou know lifelong friends family members people really understand us just wall you can get that with a girl

within an hour you can put yourself in that category i would still consider going to stripclub many months ago and also last week but in thisparticular situation many months ago and said we have the situation where shetold me we go into conversations like and deeperand deeper and then she started crying and then she starts can modify somestuff and she told me that

should missus england's and i a familyin people ever was back home should know once you can talk to and she's sorry that you know she justpoured it all out but she thinks i'm already an importantperson in our life skills such as ninety five's ease into trust me wilder kal be careful with this tonight is incredibly powerful here's how you do it not some bulbstechnique

because with dates really reallypowerful stuff unease on the go you really like themuse it just for fun this last day please wanna sleep if i'm telling you something aboutmyself i'm the pickup coach you know i a travel around to confrontus audiences on aids died my own business i'm thefirm cambridge to london by

any any facts about muscle summing uplike doing you've got a problem with your brains isgoing to stop you connecting with me until you can only for a few months and then it might be possible if wereally gone well and the thing is that anytime you get apiece of information you're it sit for a second your brain which is what do i know about this okay so if i say i like playing golf while you thinkin

you're thinking about kal i watch golfon t_v_ all i played tiger woods game on thewhatever i play crazy go when i was on holiday all all my brother plays golf so anytime i say something if this isour love united painting or dancing or you're thinking about your experiencethat if i said i love painting he thinks about back to school when they werepainting as a kids he thinks about some paintings use ornot gallery he thinks about

your friend the is does some soaring andthey're really good and you wish you were you've related to yourself and this isnot a photo because of that stuck in your brain is that's that's just the wayit works but you can train it to do somethingelse if i'm talking to a girl by going and i see that she's prettyenough and i want to talk to her but imagine i've got this blank canvasand i want to fill it all out and get one of the details

and find out who she really is because i need to know could just go be my wife or she justsome random chick dynamite would sleep with and so on so that question i need to be they can find out and imight know within a minute or might need to keep building out thepicture to really make sure and put the report replaces what this means is done trying to findout

all of the important stuff sunny that's all you cannot minutes connects with a so anytime i get a piece of informationfrom a i'm trying to get to three key things and motions motivations and character traits these are the essential ingredients

with who you all the funny thing is people share the same emotions right everyone has the same bay seven my shotout of different ones do you we've all got the same ones we can all understand each other but wedone so if we take these three thingsemotions motivations character traits and let's say you go out tonight and jimmy and bill in the ball

and sheet so see that she's news to sweden few months ago friend argentina part she tells you that you could respond so that or withanother argentina about that or how you like in sweden really goin anywhere they're all you ifyou do that stuff

if you have been mines and motionsmotivations in character traits what could we set about this goal what can we say in terms of emotionsabout moving to another country scary like natural nations yahoo how'sit how would you filled in scary adventurous tulsa character trait so you really got one alright but scary exciting if it's just scare you won't doit right

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mafia people we have pushed away fromhome danger you might meet people win londoners him you know when is what's goin on withsomething they've come over from country because as a war they want toskate maybe they're running from somethingwhat while the motivations might that be just experienced something here jobs they could be economic they want toyou know make the most possible in in their life they want to lend money hands become successful so they cansupport their

family or whatever right that's actually the important stuffisn't it not all way you firm in argentina how do you like sweden what do you do you know buys the important stuff we get into thegoal with that so the anytime i'm talking to a girl i will be thinkin what does that make her feel

why would she do it motivation what typeof person does that introvert action of a adventures boardwhat type of person now whose move country couple of the so you'd be good on certain thatquestion anyone they stayed in the same countrytheir whole life is it possible to still on so thatquestion in the same way we just it's that yes i think buddy s put yourself inher place so

when also consider gulf and she gives mea piece of information i'm immediately fishes like all youngi'm twenty two years all of that on relied on same ugh you know if you don't classes one i think it in my head on the scoutwhat type of dog sitter i'm thinkin what is behind this motions motivationscharacter checks teh character traits united she's due in this thing

she's not forced to do any more she's probably busy with work and she still takes us on every weeksago and arts she's dedicated and i think this was something thatthey're dedicated to go to the gym or they do something all the sign all right so you can identify with that even if you don't

you can still identify and understand it you might even like it you might rewardit how does she feel when she's done is expressiveness liberating is changes her mental state do you have to be a good johnson's youhave to danced on the stand and a lot on so those questions know you've done

so all on their own anytime it's alsogoing to find out any piece of information i want to think emotions motivationscharacter traits and i don't all scar alz myself what type of person would do this why would they do it and how would they feel doing it and because we're all human world thesame underneath it all which is express it differently

i can understand it and that's how but it's also stripper for half an hour ninety distracted from all over moneymaking an order that stuff began to feel totally connected within half an hour to a customer and that's how it might goes in this ifeel like a menu for three months in a few an hour or so

on the first day and that is how i would say that you can really blow a girl away because you can live your whole life the right one person to person freepeople the u dot shwetal too i believe that if i sat down with any ofyou for an hour you my office mein fights if you hadsomething on your minds like that the

big decision you might include me in that list of one two or three people because we're not suited goals that's what they did question i was going to be something else andevidence vietnam died who does the right

they ran out of the new stuff awesome the sea history news technique a danger that youcan disparaging good connection of the group thinking world is theamazing friends and if there is ok prevented i've got no problem getting in franceand with regard to consent of very good thing because i know how to get out of it

hands i would say that if you went out tonight and then became smarmy like on when i'll have been fuckin egos bymet five goals i am i hang out with so i don't know if i did too or not you believe that the best because those five goals you can inviteyou out famous socialize with the remain shouldyou should to their friends anne's you pretty when even need to doany more cold approaching now

commit these girls they gonna look offyour social life so you bring a gun into units into thefriends i and it's a position of power if you gaveme tens supermodel friends i was going to be doing co-ed approaches and all your friends in from new york nybecause she's a model but less cutting the other and she's not

this is richard's is the coolest nicestguy in london and she's not okay unit while still out today unsafe of the social proved to all of usthat's taken care of just from a good introduction fromadults are friends on his is fantastic if you know how to get all of it darn gave you a bunch of ways and i hatewoods echo those you know i have a bunch of is that it'son my me to go fans

all i'm going to do something todemonstrate dhamma tracked it's all the women i'm gonna game other women infront of uh... we talk about other women difficult stuff goin on as i will treather as a friend so i might be cool cancer and check outthere so until conservatives that and then i'm going to do this well but just on so checks out of a go check and i'll go in front of someonewho's responsible front of the friends not finds there from the gulf and don'tread aloud to go friends

you know what does that tell you he sexually interested in women okay was he interested in many ways acheck in this got out unique there instead of god when you hug a high miss miller perfume is that if they're not hunters hey howyou doing pop pop pop if i how do you guys are not going to i dot to mail you can pot pot man manhug on you

that's how you how different do that sir just a few things going on the friends imean it's easy if i've got going to friends and i takeher out to a ball with me by the end of the night i'll be they'll be a 'cause up in the gentlemenof the nice connect soft on all of the stuff so her apart from the final bitwhich is generates sexual tension and escalate by has seen the run-around do that withall these other girls wallace tells looking at me in adifferent way

deciding on i'm better than most girls and we get onso well what's going on here i needed men or just happens no be some moment and i'll be liketickling her or something and unite then i'll stop an onlooker her and they'll be that sexual tension there okay sir

now so you know what we should do thiswas such good friends cancer again i don't know if those rooms for mysupposed i think it's a strong isn't it to some more you know i hope this doesn't mean thefriendship this is bad you voice or the objections but you carry on escalating so you my friends are is easy cycle one two three two gal of it but

to get a close female friends is psalm beneficial to your life so manytimes i've been out and secure crazy things have happenedthis does this go that got me ladies three or four times you know this one gold i met once i madefriends with which is really nice was talking to a friend who was halt she's less hall my things that were the ones but she'swhich is less law

and we might for instance she was justso nice and so farmers communicates them a right to know whatyour front us dot blots gum policy with you the definitely coming with us next timewe go out we go out few times and then she calledme say or some just in the areas just open and say hi we sort of way tooklevel financial come up comes up with thiswhole goal happen to be swedish and will sit there and she sees the i'm getting on wellwith the sweetest girl

and she says guys i'm just going to go and buy somecigarettes will be back in a minute she leaves and doesn't come back so she just delivered to go to my house and before the house than we should becalled approaches running around foot the faithful fully goes in a and i justbought one of the other thing subacute female friends and if they like you and if they've got other female friends which is unitedquite likely

they will introduce insect this is richard is a lovely guy and thisgoes dot okay well i think i with all theserandom guys that could because he could be right this could be murderous and she'll think on this like for dinner cadaver this guy his chances are niceand in a on though he's not going to would be a murder or anything because not seen him on facebook they must beokay

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this approach when u pretend to know because the user-posted you know a group of people and you go and say highlighted how are you being tonight who the fuck are you command and mailed it aren't enough worst decision and it is not your dadthat's ridiculous you wouldn't do that because what you've done is to set upbefore the approach son

you're in a group of four if i just read billy walk up that mighthappen that you might like me but they don'tmay get rid of me all of these things are wild cards and so you know you're not sure what's what'sat least going to happen why one of his own get your attention and i want for something for me from adistance and then of course positive response sewn

i mean i've given a few examples the wealthiestnonverbal staff it really starts you know on the openand then you did that doesn't matter because you know that she's going to bewarranty i give an example of the situation wheni was in the club visit beautiful girl in an exclusive club behind a table withdrinks with a bunch of guys and girls and look to the supplier you will not gobut how the hell do i get in there as absolutely impossible to get his mostbase

they cannot pay make a mess it meansthat no paid for the stable gal or just signal the security guys too to get me out of this is spree muchimpossible sleep allows what do you do so see the gun suits he looks a bitsleepy and i got on this cannot park but she likes it she smilin as i walked towards that goal rememberearly wonderful trust in the mud offered

as a little towards that goal and then i'll hear the fox this guy andthen they look a little and they're not arson as it is either and i'm like alum all hate how have you been in front of the great eliminate cannot just sit here for asecond discuss on one what's going on i said there was somefriends of some richard butler move out

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