Anus Cancer

hello! ok. now i get it,i really am enlightened. so... you’ve seen how we improve,right? there's a surprise. did you know there was a surprise? yes? you're too clever! and i wanted to give you a surprise.

never mind, the surprise is that there’s a phrase,behind. i just want to saythat when it comes to the signing if you want me to sign this later,i can do that. ok? right, where were we. so what we’re here for. for me, this talk is a turning point. it's very important for me.

i can only see up to the fifth row. the rest of you are shadows. and i really like being ableto see people's faces, at least i can see some of you. well, as i was saying. these talks... when i started giving talks about... it seems so long ago,but it wasn't that long ago, obviously, i had no ideathat i'd be having these experiences

for a very simple reason:i didn't set myself any expectations. in fact,i remember when they said to me, “can we put it on youtube?” i said,“do you think anybody will watch it?” and it turns out, according to the latest datai've been given a couple of months ago, that my talks have hadmore than 18 million views. when they told me that i was like,“come again?” so all that's left for meis to live this experience.

what i do knowis that in all these years i’ve realised that everythinghas an overarching theme. an overarching theme. and i was asked to do this talkquite a while ago. but i didn't feellike it was the right moment. and it has a title that, i don't know if people can imaginewhat i’m going to talk about. maybe it's a surprise. this talk – and this is more relevantnow than ever before –

obviously, i’m the representativeof enric corbera institute but i’m going to give itas an ambassador of peace. it’s a title that was conferred on mea few years back by mil milenios de pazand the pea foundation in the argentine senate. and i’m going to read a little about the flag of peaceand the peace symbol, which you'll no doubt have seen. i don’t know if there are peoplewho know what it means

but i've found that i’m asked about itand people don't know. it’s not a random symbol and don't let themtell you it’s for whatever... i remember when i was given the title,i was a bit innocent and i asked, “what do i have to do?” and they said to me,“no, it's for what you're doing.” there’ll be people who’ll picksomething up from today and say, "i came away with this.”

and others will say,"i came away with that.” you’ll see commentsfrom three or four people and each will give their opinionon something. and some might even say,“did enric really say that?” and that’s how it is. that's how it goes. i am simply, as they say in america,a spokesman. i’m a messenger. and don’t mix me up with the message.

so, the flag of peace, a universal symbol that symbolises unity in diversity. sound familiar? it was accepted onlyby the countries in the americas on 15 april 1935at the white house in washington, leading to the signingof the roerich peace pact, with the aim of preservingthe cultural heritage of mankind. the meeting was chaired by the thenpresident of the united states

franklin d. rooseveltwho, referring to the pact, declared that it helda great profoundness that went beyond its wording. in 1937, the roerich pactwas amended by countries that made upthe league of nations, precursor to the united nations. the symbol, as you know, a circle with three spheresthat form a triangle between them, appeared on the planetmore than nine thousand years ago,

in the palaeolithic period,and in neolithic pottery. both eastern and western cultures have respected itas one of our emblematic symbols. in india it is known as "chintamani", and is said to have the power to give happiness through peace. it is known in tibetan cultureas "the dissolver of darkness". the current dalai lamais an honorary member of this committee and expresses deep respectfor the peace symbol,

together with othernobel peace prize winners. the flag logo is alsopart of western culture; the crusaders bore it on their shields. and the symbol of the three sphereseven appears in gold on the visa of the holy sepulchre“missale sacramentale” from 1130 with the energy emanating fromthe index and middle fingers of christ. many popes through the ageshave included it on their coats of arms as a sign of compliance and respect. christian art often depicts itat the feet of several virgins,

and with saint nicholas and sergius,patron saint of russia. and that's how it meets its vocationof achieving unity in diversity, a reality that we need to build onin all areas of our life if we want to achieve stable peace. there's much more. but it asksthat we all become this symbol. and for all of us to become this symbol each sphere represents somethingthat i’m sure you're all familiar with because i've said it many times,and i said it before i knew this,

so, there it is. first, the sphere of thought. pay close attention to your thoughts. if we are conscious that our thoughts are patterns of electrons we will put greater careinto our mental creation. and if we come acrossany negative thoughts in this exercise, we must replace themwith thoughts of love and harmony. first towards ourselvesand then towards others.

secondly, the sphere of the word. the second sphere of the symbolis equivalent to the spoken word. let's start paying attentionto our words in a bid to achieve deep peace through the logo of the flag of peace. note that we tend to leantowards negativity when we talk. we see ourselves as clumsy, unworthyof prosperity and illumination; we waste time on ourcritical conversations. our teacher jesus was very clearabout how careful we must be

when we speak: a man is not defiledby what enters his mouth, but by what comes out of it. to live out the second pointof the triangle in harmony, we must eliminatefrom our vocabulary phrases such as: "i can't", "i don't deserve it",or "i am unable". let’s be humble in our thoughts about the peoplewith whom we argue with our words. and thirdly, action.

finally, let’s look at the third sphere which appears in the top cornerof the peace flag. the third point of the triangle forachieving the sought-after deep peace. it represents our actions. are these congruentwith our thoughts and words? or do we think one thing, say another, and do something else very different? if we act like this, we are in total disharmonywith ourselves

and thus we disintegrate. thanks a lot. there's more. much more…right. unconscious limits. if you remember, not long ago,we gave a talk in madrid entitled “unconscious beliefs". one might thinkthat our unconscious beliefs and unconscious inputsare the same thing, well no.

beliefs, more or less,we all know we have them and we are reaching consciousnessof the beliefs we have. but behind these beliefsare some unconscious limitations that feed these unconscious beliefs. the purpose of today's talkis very simple: it's about reaching the consciousnessthat we live in hypnosis. that we are all hypnotised. and you cannot imagine just how much. i’ve been seeing this for some time.

one of the first things we do is... human beings, some might say,are talking statues; we talk a lot and say nothing. when we think we are communicatingwith people, we talk in symbols but the symbolshave many interpretations and each person interprets themhowever they like. for example, you bump into a friendwho looks very down in the dumps and you ask, "what’s wrong?" "oh, my husband and i,we're drifting apart."

now, if you're a close friendyou can say, "but what's really going onwith your husband?" but if you don't know her that well,you don't want to ask whether one of them lives in madridand the other in barcelona, you get me, don't you? so the two friends go off. and, of course,they've each heard the same thing. but they are going to interpretwhat they've just heard based on their own mental maps.

you're with me, right? but the two friends will have their own particularissues with their husbands, which is logical and normal,human and biological. but each will considerthe idea of distance in their own way. and this is how we talk to each other. i see this every day at my visits and i ask my clients,“how did this happen?” and people have real problemsexplaining what is happening to me.

and the world communicates like this. we talk in symbols,we speak in metaphors, we talk and talkand say nothing at all, it's about leaving a good impressionwithout anybody realising. be conscious of this please. the problem is that peopledo not communicate with themselves. there's a barrier. there's a barrier preventing us from expressing ourselvesfreely to others.

it’s a barrier of... we create a mental defence. what will they think?what will they stop thinking? etc. fortunately, those of us who can readnon-verbal language know that people lieand don't stop lying. someone’ll say:"how are things with the wife?" “fine.” but his shoulders are tellingthat it's not going well. or you bump into someone and... “oh, i want to tell you something",and you say, “what?”...

"go on, tell me. i have to go". we are a bunch of hypocrites. and it’s high time we startedto acknowledge the fact; it's ok. because preciselythe basic aim of these talks is to wake us up, to reach consciousness. to get out of this hypnosis. i've come to realisethat the purpose of these talks is to dehypnotise ourselves. now,

in the short time we havei'm going to dissect it all to give you an idea of how these unconscious limits, these collective hypnoses instilled in us from a tender age, force us to live in a worldthat is always at war. note the working hypothesis. i am going to demonstrate thiswith the little time i have. but we are at least going to make surethat it is understandable.

let's see if this works. i’ll do it right. there we are.i don't know where to point. there it is.limitations. it’s clear that, with limitations, i didn't put collective hypnoses or individual hypnosis, but you’ll reach consciousness,don't worry. i only make four points. first: have you reachedthe consciousness

that you repeatmany patterns of behaviour? i don't want answers,just think about it. number 2: have you reached the consciousnessthat your words, your advice, or your ordersput limits on your children? i will always remember,i’m speaking for myself here, that my parents would say to me, "enric, do you think moneygrows on trees?". now, it so happensthat my grandfather was a farmer.

and he had fruit trees. and of course,the man earned his living from trees. for the unconsciouspicking fruit is money, agreed? just think, that’s what my mother,who was the farmer's daughter, said. but it really was true. in her house,the money came from the trees. but imagine,if i'd been a farmer. and i’m under this hypnosis

that tells me that money does not grow on treesand my unconscious registers this. well, my fruit trees,given that everything is connected, the quantum field would make itso my trees bore no fruit. we are not separate from anything. everything is information. you can probably already seewhere i’m taking this, right? because you’re all very clever,i know. so, have you all reached consciousness

of the fact that many of your beliefsare dogmatic? have you reached consciousnessof the fact that your acts and words revealyour limits? i’m no good with computers. i’m not a good speaker. i’m no good at... whatever it is. are you reaching consciousness? because i can guaranteethat they put something in the seed and put the seed inside your mind.

"careful, don't make me look bad." “behave yourself,what will they think of us?" "don't touch your nose." “don't scratch yourself.” "don’t annoy people." are you with me?no, no, no, no. and they say it over and over again: "careful, dear daughter,men are all the same.” the little girl has no bloody ideawhat that means,

but it doesn't matter. "honey,men only think about one thing." there we are again,it’s what i was saying before. and now i think, because i've been educated,that i was hypnotised, deeply hypnotised, i think, "what do they mean by that?" i still remember with my friends...

"hey listen, i've been told this." and you can't imagine the nonsensewe'd come out with. we had to confess,i always remember. one day, i was at confession,because it was compulsory, and i said to the priest: “i don't have any sins.”"now that is a sin." and me being naive,i told my mother. "but don't you knowthat we were all born with sin?" now imagine a child of four or sixhearing this.

think about it. think about how it's been drilledinto us and how we've been hypnotised. these are hypnotic orders. indeed,they are hypnotic orders and, to boot, the person sayingit is someone with authority. our father, our mother,a teacher at school. nowadays,school teachers aren’t that big a deal, but they were. they’d give you a hidingyou wouldn't forget in a hurry.

nowadays,they’re not allowed to touch the kids. anyway... you're all following, right? ok, let's carry on.we've got a lot to get through. limits and violence. yes, in today's talk we are... we are going to be talkingthe whole time about violence. and it will become very clearthat slapping somebody around, that’s a type of violence.

there are lots of violencesthat are far more serious than a simple kick up the backside or a slap across the face. there are lots of far more seriousviolences that we’re going to cover. and then you can thinkabout them at home, search and think. now then, our unconscious limitsmanifest themselves, obviously,in the circumstances of life. because that's how it is.

they manifest themselves in our words, in our beliefs, our behaviours, our relationships, our vocations and our stances. i could talk about each of these thingsbut we’ll develop it as we go. now, though, i’d like you to do a little exercise. starting from now,i'm going to make you feel awkward. you're going to feel uncomfortable,

i’m warning you. look at yourselves.be observers of yourselves. what is your reactionto my presence here and my words? observe. and observe without judging. observe without adopting a positionbecause now than ever i want to do one thing: bother you, make you feel uncomfortable. because if i can't make you feeluncomfortable, something’s wrong.

if i make you feel uncomfortablei know that you're moving. i know that you can see it...we’re dusting off a lot of things. a lot of thingsthat we've kept hidden away, that we can't touch. they are like commandments. right?they are like commandments. because when they tell youthe commandments and they tell you themat a certain age, i can assure you that where i come from

nuns in their timeand priests in theirs wanted childrenand they’d say to you: "bring me your sonand i’ll give him back to you a man." i'm old, you see. “and i’ll give him back to you a man.” that's where the brainwashing starts. “do this, don't do that." “if you do this, you’ll go to hell." "god is always watching."

you can't imaginehow i’ve suffered with that scumbag of a god watching me all day... you can't imagine. i’ll say it loud and clear,you cannot imagine. there i'd be with my friendsand, damn it, of course... we lived in the countryside and there were some peacheson this hot afternoon. i remember...i was about five or six. i remember...my friend's name was thomas.

i haven't seen him in years,but he's called thomas. good times... and we'd say it with such certainty: "oh man, we're being watched." catholicism is one of the easiestreligions to follow. do you know why? because you sin, you go and confessand it's all sorted. and he said to me, imagine how we thoughtwhen we were five or six,

he said: "right, enric, but you know that you go and confessand it's all forgiven." and he’d walk by one and go ‘bam!’. and if it fell to the groundwe didn't consider that a sin. because it was alreadyon the ground. and as it was on the groundit could rot. because the farmer wasn't goingto come, being the weekend, he wouldn't get there till mondayand by then the ants would have come.

if you grow up in the countrysideyou know how all this works. i remember a wasp stinging usand us wetting ourselves, and we mixed up some mud to a paste and stuck it on ourselvesand it worked like a charm. you could tell we were country boys. we were very sure about everything. otherwise, one of us would graba stone and make like it had fallen. bam! and it would hit the treeand one would fall down. and the other would say,"throw another; only one fell."

i remember it perfectly,like it was yesterday. everything gets recorded. the information is never lost. we can't forget, but we can transform. when we laugh, we are forgiving. when we are resentful, we project this resentment on to others and we carry on doing the same.

if not with fruit, with something else. this is called "violence". just observe. great. it is violencebecause it stifles our freedom. and that of others when we project it, which is what i was just explaining. when you can really laughabout something like that, obviously you laugh and that’s it.

and it gets stored in your memory,but the chest has changed. now we'rein the chest of laughter, not the chest of sin. not the chest of ‘we are bad’, not the chest of whatever... because when you're in that chestand there are lots of these limits, i repeat:we project them on to others. not with the exact same words,though sometimes, yes. but often with the same meaningand the same intention.

ok, family? so, moving on... let's have a lookat some of the features of violence. some are very subtle. for example, a mother says to her daughter, "you’re not going out like that!" it seems silly, doesn't it? but you say thatto a five- or six-year-old girl.

or you start telling her...you dress the girl like a "poupã©e". yes, yes; this is violence. and do you know why it's violence? because i am programming my daughterthat she has to go out dressed a certain way. still with me?it’s not an innocent thing. obviously,i'm not saying that the mother is bad. because,what’s the mother herself doing? projecting beliefs that she received.

they are very subtle. it's like the ads that we see on the tv, these size-zero-minus-three girls. what’s that all about?my wife – and i love my wife – that dress...she can't even get one leg in it. and then there's the other one,a guy’s looking for a car. and they put this "girl” in there,sitting there. and the guy says, "shit."

the unconscious is perfectly clear,i don't know about the car. if i can get that with this car, then i'm gonna buy the damn car. and we're laughing,which is what i want: i want you to laugh becausewhen we laugh we reach consciousness. "ãndale", as they say in mexico. “get out of here!” but it's like this. all this is violence,making girls believe. and then you see it on the street,girls walking like this.

and your unconscious says to you:"not that one." programmes...dance for this... eat this,fight for that. what do they think they are? alignments. violences are very subtle. and men get used. and don't get me started on perfume. i could do a phd in that.

perfume. what amazing marketing! it's important for your perfumeto project your personality. and becausesome people have a shit personality, they put this perfume on that knocks you outwhen you walk down the street... or you get in the lift,one day i got in with this woman who must have feltthat she had a fantastic personality. so i got in and when i triedto get out again, i couldn't.

that's violence too: having to smella perfume that i don't like. are you seeing all this violence? it's everywhere, everywhere. what i’m saying... we consider it normal, it’s hypnosis. we have to smell. one time, i dropped one of thosescented potpourri things, you know,

the ones you could set fire towith a match, we've only done three slidesand we’re already stuck in. do you see? we’re really getting stuck in. i've been mullingover this talk for a while. shall i say this or not,and then i say it anyway. over with. now, sara,the girl who came out before told me, "you have to talk about violence",

sara, give me time, i need to feel it,and okay, there it is, i can feel it. because i wanted to make it fun. i want us to see our painbut i don't want us to start crying. all clear, darlings? it can be sugarcoatedwith love and affection. oh, now that i've found you,i can't live without you. i've already messedthis woman's life up

because, naturally, this woman,who initially was maybe like, "oh, listen to what enric told me!" but when she starts to take stock,she says... there comes a day that she getsbored of this guy because he's really annoying, because his feet stinkand she's sick of it, and he burps and farts... i thought i was really happywith this guy and i want to leave him,but she says without knowing why,

"but i don't want to hurt him." because you were hypnotised,my love. don’t let them say to you,"i can't live without you." say, "hang on a minute." you live with you and i’ll live with me and when we agree,we’ll have a little tumble together, but then everybody goes home." let's take it step by step. everybody with me?yes?

there are many types of violence. people think that you’refoul-mouthed because you say, "you're a git”. and they say "you're so lovely,when i see you i get all..." and you say, "ooh, great."but let's see... it's true. this is the greatest form of violence. they give it to you with vaseline. you don't realise but it's alreadyin, and you say, "what the..?,

what just happened?" and bent over, as you say. but then you say, "but i'm not telling him to get it out because i don't want him to get mad, especially after the complimenthe just gave me." i’m doing this to make us laugh. it’s like the "comedy club” in here,isn't it? but i haven’t rehearsed.

i didn't knowhow i was going to give the talk. i just thought, “lord, enlighten me,so it's not too dramatic." let's carry on. and oh, by the way, always with the best intentions,of course. because, naturally, darling son,this hurts me more than it does you, but i've just given hima really hard slap. remember though,it hurts me more than it hurts you. thanks. "son, i don't thinkthat girl’s right for you."

"it's for your own good, you know." “well thanks so much, mum”,or "thanks a lot, dad". "thanks for letting me livemy own life." this is violence. still with me? we’ll come to it, we've just started. people who project the beliefsof the parents. "your dad’s this...", "your mum doesn't do that",

and you're four years oldand "tell your dad...” "tell your mum...”. and i've met people who are 50and they’re still the same. they say, “i just don't get it.”“dear, you're hypnotised,don’t fret." we're great dehypnotisers here, which is what i’m doing now. but all that "tell dad" or "tell mum","your mum's this" or "your dad", where do i begin? it can be coated in suffering.

"son, don't come back so late,i worry so. i worry so,i can't sleep, i can't sleep." and when the child gets home,the mum it’s usually the mum, or the dad, comes out: “how are you son?”and the son... "did you have a good time, son?" and the son says, "yes." "i’ve made you omeletteand chips. because i thought, ' oh, my poor boy,all night without eating,

my boy’ll have to eat something'." and the son, "no, don't worry, mum. i’m going to bed." "oh, how we worryand look at how they treat us." “after all i’ve done for you. look, after i gave you my youth. and now you're running roundwith that slag of a neighbour." ok?good, right? sounds familiar, right?

i could go on for hours. people who demanda lot of love and affection. “oh, honey, come and see granny. i'll give you a couple of euroswhen you do.” and then... "where are going, love?" "i'm going to get a couple of euros,sorry, to see granny." now, this is really funny, but the kid is going to grow up.

and he’s learnedthat to get or receive affection he has to pay something. are you with me? and the personwho does it is not conscious, because these areunconscious limitations. the projection of guilt...where do i begin? "who do you think you are?"don't you know i've done this?" “yes, great.” or as one woman said,

"my kids, really, my kids...they just do what they want." and i said, “why?” "i cook their mealswith all the love in the world." "as you should," i say. "yes, but they don't say anything." and i said,"but do they eat it?" and she said, "every last bit.""so?" "what more do you want?"besides eating it, should they say, ‘great mum! well done mum'?"

the kids eat the potato omeletteor whatever you've made because you do it out of love.that’s what you said. do you want them to applaudyou every time? suffering. suffering and they suffer, eh? oh my kids... and there was one who said,“my husband's worse." “why'?""he doesn’t buy me flowers." what?

"if my husband loved mehe'd buy me flowers." and i said,"well, you buy them." "no, no, he should know..." oh... that ‘he should know’. that ‘he should know’,that's a lot to know. "he should know that i like flowers.” "but i'm sure he loves you very much." and she said,"if he loved me he'd buy me flowers." and i couldn’t snap her out of it.

"why don't you buy them, honey?”, "why not buy them yourself?" another one. they try to control.this is a good one...control. "hi, daughter, how are you?" "good, mum.same as yesterday, no news." and after a time the girl or the guy gets sick to death of the mother’s daily phone callat eight o’ clock in the evening.

conversation: "how are you, mum?" "good, good." "how are you, son. everything ok?" "yes, everything's fine."and the next day, the same thing. we have a rule in our house:no news is good news. when someone calls, you say,“oh god! what's happened?” and that's it. "and do you want to talk to mum?"

and they say, "no, but it's my mum.and i don't want her to feel bad." when you were little, mum madethis emotional dependence her business. when my children go away, i say, "just let me know when you arrive...when you get there. and when you come back, just say"i'm on my way back." and if there’s nothing else inbetween there's nothing wrong at all. moving on... those based on distrust. we could write a book about these.

the violences based on distrust are: i tell you one thing,but i believe another, because i think whatever...right? and we start to createan act of violence: saying things to someone,things we don’t believe. and we don't want to do. that is, we say we’ll do them, we make a commitmentbut we have no intention of doing them. right?

great, let's carry on. some examples: people say"enrique, give us examples." i can't give examples herebecause there’s no time. but i’m going to give examples of some of the ones i've got herein case i miss one out. so, coating things in suffering. these are all real-life examples. i don't tell them word for wordfor obvious reasons.

so any resemblance to anyoneis purely coincidental. but i talkabout the most important things. now, a client comes to see meand they've had a stroke. we know that strokehas to do with a lot of control, as if there’s a situationbothering me incessantly and i can't find the solution. so, the issue is this: take note because there’slots of violences in this example, loads.

i've already introduced youto the topic, you’ll start to see them. one: the parents; the father is an alcoholic and abuses the mother. ok, clear enough:somebody's abusing someone else. the problem isthat the mother throws him out and takes him back a few months later. all with me?

and this goes on for years. and the child, who was a child,my client, is now an adult, but he was a child,and he's seen this since he was small. and the child takes his mother's side. because his mother complains: "look, what your father does to me." now, if i climb down here and kick this gentleman in the leg, the guy's going to think,"enric didn't see me."

but if i get down three timesand kick him three times, he has a problem. he has the problem. carl gustav jung said, "the victim is oftenthe real victimiser." because i can give youa pasting or two, but not for 25 years. everybody with me? from a dual perspective,we have a victim and a victimiser,

but from a quantumand holistic perspective, the two have the same programme:to devalue, as we know. so, here there’s an excesson the man’s side, called excess positivism, and the woman usually hasa deficit in positivism or affection. for the moment this is how it is. now we're coming to a crucial point. this goes on for a long time

and the child grows up, always suffering for his mother. he worries about her so much that he dare not leave her alone. because his mumallows this man to come in, but the man doesn't just come;she calls him because the poor guy'san alcoholic and all that, but when he comes back,he slaps her around. and he feels this greatresentment towards his father.

and he wants to get on with his life,but he doesn’t dare to. in the end, he meets a girland he’s more attracted to her. the problem is that this girlhas the same pattern as his mother. and she also exertsviolence on him. note how subtle it is: they are sitting on the couchwatching tv and she says to him, "you haven't kissed me today.” for god's sake!

you want a kiss from your husband?go over and snog him! you haven't kissed me today. and whoever says you didn't kiss metoday says you didn't do x today. so he reaches awareness of the factthat his wife is very demanding, like his mother. he has this project, i can’t remember if it was studyingor going away to study somewhere, but he’s hypnotised again by this, "i don't want to leave my mother,etcetera.”

for the unconscious, my wifeand my mother are exactly the same. right?and there it is. stay or go?stay or go? stay or go? until you end up staying. get the picture? as i was saying, he searchesand searches, and he feels trapped, because he wants to get on with lifeand he doesn't. he was hypnotised as a child. do you get what i’m saying?

ok, here’s another. coated with love and affection. this one's great. a lady comes to see mebecause she's got this kidney problem and they don't knowif she needs an operation, and she says"and at one point i put on 30 kilos." "really?" "it was like from one day to the next."bam! bam! 30 kilos." and i asked her,"when did this start?"

"my husband died;he was 30 years older than me." remember that. that’s an excess, right? “30 years older than me." "her husband dies aged 84",when she's 54. and she goes to the notaryto get "the thing" and it turns out that he left it allto his ex and their kids. after living with himfor a tonne of years. still with me? ok.

when she reads the will,she has a funny turn and faints. and then her bloods starts to boil. and from then on,it turns out that she only inherited a house that she and her deadhusband bought god knows where, but which has a mortgage on itwith 300,000 euros outstanding. and she doesn’t know howshe's going to make ends meet, and that affects the kidney,the kidney is liquidity, is liquid. ever heard that spanish saying, “it cost me a kidney”?

ever gone to the bank to be told"i’m like this for cash"? the unconscious sorts outcash flow quickly. what does the unconscious do? i don't have liquidity,and the information collapses. do you understand?it collapses it. and the 30 kilos? i say it like this,we’ll edit it out later, "i hope the bastard burns in hell,30 years my senior..." do you understand?and 30 kilos on top of that, bam! a kilo a year.

"i've put up with this guymuch older than me for so long", right? bam! the unconscious,quietly, there it is, in your face. because the unconsciousdoesn't judge... that's it. good. i say,"listen love, you've been hypnotised... you're in a statebecause your life is an excess. tell me about it.” "well, when i met my first boyfriend,when i was 16, my mum said to me,

'i don't like that boy. i don't like him, i don't wantyou to go out with that boy.'" of course. the first guy, what you expect,i say this because i have daughters, for your dad to say ‘great’. i remember my daughter was going outwith this guy and i said to her, “look, love, i’ll always be by your side. if you mess up, i’m there.

if you get it right, i’m there.i’ll always be there. but i won't deprive youof the experience", and i said, "i don't think this boy'sthe one for you, but if you love himyou have my blessing. just do me a favour,a small favour. wait till you've done erasmus. go on your erasmus trip. and when you come back from erasmus,which is the equivalent of orgasmus, if when you come back from erasmus,you want to marry this guy,

i’ll be the first to give my blessing.” she hugged me and said,"thanks, dad". and there was a pact.do you get me? i can't tell you how many timesshe's thanked me. but i didn't stop her, you see? do this and if you want to marry himafterwards, well go on, get married,without thinking. "i just don't like him.have you taken a proper look?" but she can’t see; she’s in love,she looks at him funny.

but she doesn't see it,it's all related. of course, when someonefalls in love they go all funny. so, anyway... this girl has her story. and she falls in love with a spiritualleader and goes off to switzerland. and she said to me:“it’s not a sect." and i said, "there were lots of women in the groupyou shared, weren't there?" "almost all."

"and what did you do?""me, take care of the kids." "the leader’s kids?"“of course.” "and what were you doing there?""i wanted a baby with the leader." “so what happened?” one day he said to me,“sorry, the tap's been turned off." and there was no baby. the thing is that she goes. she meets this guy. and you all know the outcome.

why am i saying all this? because during the visit,she remembers her mother saying, "daughter, you're stupid, you're never going to finda man who loves you, even as a mother you're no use." still with me?what was that woman projecting? her projection.everybody with me? that is violence.and with that hypnosis stuck in there. in their family tree,

the men died young and the women of the clanpractically had to become men. so she had this real need for a father. do you seethat what we’re told as children we end up living out as adults? everyone lives in their ownway, that’s clear. not everyone lives life the same,thank god. now, coated with protection. this is a good one too: a clientcomes with a lump in her throat.

she lives with her mother, grandmotherand sister, four women from the clan, and i say, “where are the men?”"the men..." the men have never been around. she's 15 years oldand she comes home. she’s started seeing this guy. and the three witches, sorry,the three women are waiting for her. nine o'clock at night. in the kitchen. the kitchen clock:tick, tick, tick.

until four in the morning,going on and on and on. "i just don't know about this.and men are whatever." now that’s brainwashing. so she gets this lump and has an operation and fifteen years later the lumpcomes back in the same place and that’s when she decides to endher relationship with her husband. because she does not know why butshe can't carry on with her husband. and i asked her,"why don't you want to carry on?"

“i don’t know.” well i know. "men are useless and all that..."everybody with me? do you see?ok. meanwhile, she works with a girlgiving talks and so on. and she has a problem with a girland wants to finish. she wants to end a relationship.and she says, "and at four day",

which must meanfour in the morning, "and at four day we sat downto work out how to wind up the company and at four in the morningwe were still talking, and i stayed silent, because thanks to you, enric, now i have reached consciousnessthat one of the things the three marias told me is, ‘you can’t talk; be quiet, your opinion doesn’t count.’”

i wasn't conscious. that's why, at four in the morning... that's why i had the thyroid problem, because i was always waitingfor the time to pass. imagine a little girl sitting there. and she couldn't because when shewanted to say something she was told, "be quiet." when i wanted to say something,"shut up." six hours: "shut up." waiting for the time to pass.

a lump, here. because the thyroid is related to time. let's see another. coated with control. this is a ladywho comes to me and says, "i have episodes of dry skin." i'd never heard this. “let's see,” she says,"i have dry skin." "well, i can see it's dry,but do you take care of it."

"yes, but depending on what happens,in a matter of minutes, it turns dry, really dry,and gets all wrinkled." well, it all started like this, i’m talking about when i was a child,what's going on. because i realised:what is the seed they put in you? the time of the seedis when they start training you. when we are still delicate,are you with me? and they start telling you thingsthat are the law for you. because the people saying these thingsare people you give power too:

your parents,it doesn't matter if they're hooligans. and then she sees that her fatherhad a problem with image. with image. and she starts to go out with a guy,at the age of 24, she meets a guy. "what are you doing aged 24with a guy?" "well before they saidi couldn’t because of our image, what would people think,‘men, women...?’" she goes out. "oh, don't go getting pregnant,you know your father's image...

and all that.” everybody with me?conclusion: she has no kids. and she works as a teacher. why? because for her unconsciousshe should have children. but the real stress,when all this starts, is that her nephew dies. a son of her sister. and he was like a son to her,

and her programme,her information, is that she could not have sexso as not to get pregnant. and you might say,"but she's married." no, the order doesn't come. "careful, don't get pregnant." "don't go getting pregnant." and for the unconscious"don't get pregnant" means don't get pregnant ever. is this clear, darlings?

that’s violence in its clearestform. that’s called "screwing your life up". with a lot of love and affectionand with every good intention, because the only thing i'm doingis projecting my fears, my shortcomings and my frustrations. we’re here todayto reach consciousness. not to do harakiri, don't worry. there are no guilty parties herebut we're going to reach consciousness because if we reach consciousnesswe can laugh at it

and we will changehow we express ourselves. yes? good. the stress also appears when they try to promote herto director of such and such. and then it's,"will i be able to project an image?" "will the teacherswho are my friends now still be there?" are you following? she felt the same stress. she didn't dare accept the positionfor her image.

do you see the extent to whichwe are hypnotised... with every good intention. all men are pigs. have you noticed?don't worry, more than one. so a girl comes to mewith human papillomavirus. hpv, and she comes and i say, "normally hpv is associatedwith dirty sexual relations or ‘i feel dirty’,

or ’my husband went off witsomeone else and then slept with me’. ‘i feel like a prostitute’.”in short, everyone has a story. but the thing starts like this. and i said, "when did this start?"“when we decided to have a baby." “what happened?” he said, "well... three or four years agoi had genital herpes.” he said this to her. and she said,“why didn't you tell me before?”

“becausewe didn't know each other then." "i had genital herpeswith a girl before i met you." "you should have told me thisbefore you met me." now, that's exaggerating a bit but,do you understand? and he said, "it's alright,my dad’s a gynaecologist. and he told me it's ok." but it turns outthat her dad is a doctor. and he says the opposite,"no, you can catch that."

so we have two doctorsand they don't see eye to eye. but that’s not the half of it. the thing is that the father and the two grandfatherswould go out on the prowl. they'd take their penguin out. and all the women in the clanput up with their husbands’ prowling. because they are long-suffering. because the men are the pigs. but they put up with the situation

and to whomdo they pass on the situation? the daughter. when the daughter hears,“i had genital herpes”, it’s like someone pushed a button. there it is, human papillomavirus. i ask her, well, i say to her, “i'm sureyour husband is super faithful." and she says, “you have no idea. he’s totally, totally faithful.”

of course, you’re making up for the fact that all themen in the clan were unfaithful and you went looking for a totally,faithful man. and she says, “i hadn't looked at it like that.”“go on, get home.” “you've got a faithful man, honey,who loves you.” still with me?but she was hypnotised. i don't know if i'm explaining myself,yes? she was in hypnosis.

“does your man mess around?" "no way! you loves meand he treats me like a princess." "so what do you want?" here i've written,"the past always comes calling." overprotection. i know a thousand peoplewith alcohol problems, men and women, practically all over the world,they are over-protected. they’re emotionally immature.

normally, the characteristic is: the mother has a husbandwho is never at home and she projectsher need for a man on to her son and overprotects the child, making him an emotionallyimmature individual; in other words, people with very weak reactionsto any frustration. like in today's society...if you press play... you know like when children pressfor something and they don't get it?

yes? ok. overprotection is one of the biggestviolences around because we incapacitate our children and prevent them, as adults, from being able to overcome the mental and psychic difficulties of life. and when they can't,because they just can't, they feel helplessand take refuge in drink. and women usuallyhave the same problem,

but it’s called"mummy-itis" or "child-itis". i once met a guy who's now a fantastic personand does wonderful things out there, but when he was a child,his mother would say to him, "if i could, i’d keep you in a closetfull of cotton wool and never let you out." she never let him play outwith his friends. "no, you might hurt yourself." "no, you’ll get dirty, i don’t wantanything to happen to you.”

this guy was a drug trafficker. ok? easy life. he was lucky he met me,he always said that he was lucky. and today he's a good man,he gave it all up. he said to me,"i met you and i went broke." because he earnedwads of cash every month and he ended upon a thousand or twelve hundred euros. he used to say,"i met you and i don't know... you've not ruined my life,but you've ruined me.”

he's a really nice guy,this was quite a few years ago. i'm talking about 25 years ago. i’ll always remember this person because he has the same nameas my son, he's called david. and i’ll say here and now, “david,it was a pleasure meeting you, you were my great teacher.i learned so much from you. thank you.” differential education,

which is oneof the major causes of violence. and this is where mumshold the power. you educateyour sons and daughters differently. and they do the samewith their children. and thenthey do the same with theirs. fortunately, this is changing,but we need to speed it up. so, ladies,their early years are yours, boys and girls the same;don't differentiate between them because then we hear things like,"i killed her because she was mine."

parents who force their relationship, as if their children were clueless. as if their children were clueless. “no, i put upwith my husband’s bad attitude because he's the fatherof my children". and i say, "and that’s the fatheryou want for your children? that’s the modelyou want your child to learn? for him to shout at you? what's your child going to dowhen he get married?"

shout! everything is imitation;everything is learned; this is known. they are called “mirror neurons”. and we put up with harassment,abuse, shouting, fighting, flying plates, for the sake of the children. for the sake of the childrenor for you? are you with me, darlings? you have a face on you...i'm making you uncomfortable.

of course, i'm very observant. fraud and speculation, that’s violence. deceiving people, speculation, for the government to do it, it’s violence that there are peoplewho have stolen millions and they are put in prisonas if they'd been put on a spaceship. make them give the money back. come on! and all us little peoplehere, paying our taxes.

and it turns out that, well,there you have it: speculation is a great violence. so somebody, say, in ibiza today, because they used to say that peoplewho work in ibiza can't work, because if they want to work in ibizathey must sleep in overcrowded flats on a mattress for 300 eurosa month or else... if you don’t, you don't work. oh no, and the government,which watches out for us all, allows this speculation.

this is violence.does everybody understand this? yes, you paya thousand euros less in income tax and only 20%. but the guy speculatingdoesn't even pay tax, and he goes on tv, and they show these flats and it all continues. this was on tv3 today,you can see it on tv3 a la carta. and the journalists go thereand they show it all, they don't even have to look for it.

they just ask one of thewaiters where they sleep: “me? with 200 others, one metre eachin a 300-square-metre flat." for 300 euros a month.yes, darlings, this is real. allowing this is violence.everybody with me? i explain lots of thingsabout violence. different treatment due to religion,skin colour, culture... the irregular distributionof taxes in a country, that’s violence. that on the regional railwaysof this country

the trains are running today, tomorrow we’ll see,let's toss a coin to find out. it’s called violence. for there to be no money in thehealth care services in catalonia, that’s called violence. yes, darling. it is. for a minister to use thingsthat are prohibited by law and remain a minister...this is called "violence". what are they teaching us?

that stealing is natural? ok. am i making you think? yes, yes, that’s all i want.for you to think. this is our society. it’s a reflection of ourselves. someone said that every countryhas the ruler it deserves. so let’s reach consciousness. now, sport. what about sport? nationalism, flags, graffiti,

pitched battles. this is what we teach. police in the street. have you seen the spectacleof the european cup? today,because everything is small... and work, the abuse of power. abuses of power in the workplaceit’s shocking. really shocking. differential treatment wherea woman has to earn less than a man.

allowing this is violence. at least in my company,the majority are women. the ones in charge, female. i don't choose this,it happens in my life. if she does it better... it's violence. you get the point, don't you? we complain about violence:"but she killed her husband." there are lots of ways to killlots of people:

by shooting, by nipping them. and in the workplace it's horrific. i won’t talk about "bullying",i don't want to get ahead of myself. let’s not get ahead,don’t get nervous. and then there’s themost hidden violence of all. suicide. did you see the lady's face? it’s as if i'd said,"it's raining in madrid." it’s a disgrace for any country.

psychologists and psychiatristsare in two minds about whether or not to report it because they are afraidof the issue: if we report it people will get ideas. and they're right. if you say it, why do you say it.and, if you don't, why not. but there they are, all the data,which are official, so naturallywell below the real figures. 800,000 people in 2012,

and i repeat: that is what they say,i’m talking about spain, which is one of those countries,according to official figures, the lowest,but the number of suicides in spain is doubleand almost triple the accident rate. and it says that there are moredeaths than in traffic accidents. spain is the third country in the listin europe, starting from the bottom. we’re at the bottom end. i think italy, switzerlandand a couple more are ahead of us. there are lots of factors, obviously.

a society that has little tolerationfor frustration. in spain, thousands of teenagerstry to kill themselves each year. in madrid, 1,900 attempts were recorded over 4 monthsin 4 hospitals in the madrid region. 1,900. i’ve witnessed this first-hand. i've rushed a sister of minewho tried to commit suicide to the hospitaland did mouth-to-mouth on her. i know what i'm talking about.

agreed? with problems of bulimia and anorexia. but i’m not surprised. with the hypnosis we were subjectedto in my house where everything was a sinand my sisters, when my mother got home,"did you go to mass?" me, i had a pair of balls, and when i came in i'd say,“no way. i’m not going to mass." "don't you know that godsees everything?"

"well, he’ll have seenthat i haven't gone to mass then." and she'd say, "you know you’re goingstraight to hell?" and i'd say, "this house is hell." that's how i answeredwhen i was about 14 or 15. and my mother would say,"you're the devil incarnate." well i must be. so, ladies and gentlemen,the insults uttered in this world against my person, can do no harm

because as a childi wrapped myself in teflon. as a boy, i wrapped myself in teflon. i’m telling it like it is. thanksto these truly special situations, i have the strength that i have today,the confidence i have in myself, and i thank godfor the parents he gave me. let that be clear. because i've decided to be the master,not the victim. it was my decision.

is that clear? things never happen just because. different types of suicide,there are lots here. eating disorders. i lived this at home so i included it,my sister died from this. risk behaviours. we see young people constantlyputting their lives at risk in cars or doing sport where they seriouslyinjure themselves for no purpose. what for?

"it makes me feel alive." and i say,"dead is what you’ll be." oh, you’ll feel something alright...the pummelling you’re going to get. that's not biological,no animal says... a deer, "watch, my beloved doe." and jumps five metreswhen it can only jump four. we confirm that it's very machoand it takes an almighty fall. deer, possibly roasted. we do crazy stuff.

and i’m not even talkingabout drug addictions like alcoholism. when people go out to celebrate,to have fun, which in spanish comes from the latin andmeans "to change direction", because they have to enjoyand they have the right to, but they couldn't give a damnabout the neighbours. until four in the morning. drinking and drinking... if they were to pick it up and take itwith them when they went home, but,no the next day they have to go round...i don't get it.

barcelona celebratesthe feast of saint john. tonnes and tonnes of waste. so why don't they put bins out? they do; they empty out the bins. because we all pay for the guywho comes and cleans up afterwards. sweeties... there are people that go roundthinking that the woods must have a mouth that swallows up all the shit. there are people who go there

with a bed... a bed to the woods. i live in the country and i findtoilet bowls, beds, mattresses... people must thinkthat a monster comes out at night but, instead of the cookie monster,it eats beds and all this other stuff. and don't get me started on the oneswho take their dogs out and you go out after them and...i could go on but we’ll leave it here. but you’re all following, right? well, we’ll continue with this. sexual violenceagainst women or in women.

this is abstract data from the un,on women. it's official data. i don't know if it’s true,but at least what i say is official. 35% of women around the world havebeen subject to physical and sexual violence by their partneror a person other than their partner, like a cousin, uncle or whoever. ok, different types of sexual violencewithin marriage. there are lots. i can testify to that.

sexual harassment in the workplace. sex in exchange for favours. child sexual abuse. forced marriage. even with children, 250 million females under the age of 15are forced to marry. the other day, i was reading a columnin "la vanguardia", i think it was, about a girl who said,"i was married as a young girl and the men would beat us,the husbands would beat us

so that we were well-behaved." note: the twenty-first century. 43% of womenin the european union have suffered violenceat the hands of a sexual partner, in europe. femicide:“i killed her because she was mine". 1 in 3 women are the targetsof violence by their sexual partners. and there is no differencein social class or education. there is no high social class here,none at all.

working hypothesis. we're here to put things right. what i've been explaining. the problem isthat we project ourselves constantly. it is a matter of projection. we blame others for our shortcomings. if someone insults mei say that they've insulted me. i don't think“why is this happening to me?” and as is writtenin the most sacred books,

"in the universe, as in life,nothing happens by chance"... nothing; no encounter is casual. everything is synchrony, everything is resonance. when you meet someone and sayhow good you feel with him, it's because you are resonatingwith that person. we say things like,“we have this 'feeling'”, “we are tuned in”. and your friend says...

you're all with me, right? “i just can’t breathe.” "you've only gone and fallen in lovewith that muppet..." "you just don't see him the way i do."“i swear it's not true.” we all do the same. for example, you don’t meetsomeone just because, and you don't relate just because,it’s all resonance. so,let’s stop projecting ourselves. if i go through lifefeeling that i’m worthless,

that i was taughtthat men are worthless – still with me? – i'm going to find men that devalue me. it's as simple as that. if we think in dual mode“what bad luck”, we fall into the trap of victimhood. at the institute we teachthat victimhood does not exist; it is a choice. here, as other authors would say,

“we have to learn to be adults of god." emotional adults. we must be responsiblefor our thoughts, feelings and actions. and one way to change is to realise that we constantly project and that when we choosea friend or a relationship, we are actually projecting ourselveson them. and i am projecting myself

thanks to these hypnosesthat i received from my mother. for example,there was this lady, here she is, i have it here, this lady came to see me withan anal cancer that she no longer has. and she said, “look, enric, i have a really swollenreproductive system, so swollen that i can’t havesexual intercourse.” perfect. and i ask her one thing,

"have you got a problem with a man?" and she says,"with my brother." it came straight out: my brother. "what's wrong with your brother?""he’s an alcoholic." alright. "how does your mother treatyour brother?” "she's always been..." “how about you?"ignoring me?" solemn words from the mother.

"men are good-for-nothings." “women don't need men." she's had seven partners. seven partners. and i asked her, "did you have sex?" and she said,"in the beginning, but not later." "and how did you punish them?" i'd be like this all day: "you're useless,you do everything wrong, and so on."

she'd say,"men are useless", life brings her mento tell them this... this is called "violence",got it? "and your current relationship?" "my current relationshipis with my husband." and she said, "don't even go there.i love my husband very much." “calm down, calm down," i told her. "what's wrong with him?" "we don't have sex because of how i am,

but i love him very much,i travelled here today from the city and i left him his lunch,clean underpants, shirt, pants, everything." and i say, "as if he were your son." and she says, "yes." "you love him like a child becauseyour mother taught you one thing: that men are only goodwhen they are little; when they get older,they're no good any more. so, the only relationshipthat you have with a man

is mother to child." and there's more, "for your unconsciousyou and your mother are the same, and your husband and your brothertoo." everybody following? so, you can't have sexwith your children. simple as that. the solemn words of her mother. “men are all the same,they’re worthless."

"we women don't need men." she'd heard it since she was so big.why?” because this lady had a husbandwho was never at home and just put up with the situation. and instead of taking decisionsand changing her life, she thought, "i’ll train and playthe role of victim." and throw everything into a childwho was left immature, who could well be 35but it’s as if he were 12. a clearly emotionally immature

individual and a womanwhom she taught that men are good for nothing at all. phrases with a backdrop of violence. i have selected these from my visits: "you make me do it.”"i do it for your own good." “i can’t live without you.”"i’ll kill myself if you leave me." "you got what you deserve."“you can't do anything right.” "you’ll never do anything.""nobody'll love you." "your brother is better than you."

"i'd be kinderif you were more tolerant." "you never support me.""you only think of yourself." "you make me worrywith your attitude and friends." and we could go on. so, onward towards change. towards change. educate and appreciateboys and girls equally. this is the big seed. and if you ladieshave a husband who is never at home,

decide whether you wantto live with him or without him, but don’t be victims or lay blameand do not unconsciously project your need or lackof a man at home on to your child. you will establisha differential treatment. and you will subconsciously teachthis boy that he is special, because he is treated by womenand must be treated by women. please listen carefullyto what i'm saying. because we learn subconsciously. my mother treats medifferently to my sister.

so,when i am small and this is the law, then i demand it. i demand this. and they do it subconsciously. because the motherprojected all her frustration. and,she does it with the best intentions. of course she does. but two wrongs don't make a right. and the road to hellis paved with good intentions,

but it still leads to hell. we are here to reach consciousness not to do harakiri,"what did i do wrong?” no. we are here to reach consciousness. those of us who have been parents,to forgive ourselves. and those of you who are going to be,to be fully conscious. educationno longer has to be against, it needs to be moreof a collaboration, not competition.

still with me?we are always in competition. our biology,all of nature collaborates, it doesn't compete. evolution is not darwinian, it is lamarckian. it is collaboration.all of our cells work together. imagine if the cells in the liver told the heart cells to get lost? that bloody gutgives me a lot of work!

don't work so hard, intestine. you, mouth! eat less!i have to work. can you imagine? the 50 million cells we have,if each one did its own thing. this is called “cancer”. and do you know why it's cancer? because we think one thing,feel another, do another, and we justify it. and we justify it,we aren’t coherent.

education in emotional management,what are we here for? emotion is really – we’re gettingstraight to the point now – it's not only about physicalsymptoms, there's something else, in educating people,in managing emotions. in teaching our childrenhow to overcome daily events, to turn them into emotional geniuses. emotional intelligence. you don't get on in lifeby being very smart. the oneswho triumph are the emotional geniuses.

i'm a bit of a dummy, but i’m a geniuswhen it comes to emotional topics. do you get me?and that makes me look wise. i’m a genius emotionally,but in everything else i just manage. the truth is that the older i becomethe more intelligent i get, maybe because the neurons...we take advantage of them and learn. it’s true, our brainshould never age, it doesn't have that capacity; it ages because it gets bored, it thinks the same things every day,it repeats the same, says the same,

feels the same, same, same... and the neurons say,"come on, change the record." and nothing changes. but if you get up every daywith hope... you see, i'd get rid of retirement. come on, everybody to workuntil you die; no, no i wouldn't go that far. retirement in the senseof retirement here. “what do you do?”“i’m retired.”

as if it were somethingthis being retired malarkey. the retired guy,and four of them join up... to spend the afternoon together. i’m going to die with my boots on. i'll be here one day and say...well, i'm off. and i’ll drop dead, that’s it;i've finished, the talk's over. "when are you going to retire?”"the day i go." "are you going to work all your life?" one minute,i’ve never worked,

because i like what i’m doing so much that when i finish i say,"lord, is it already over?" no way! and something else: "whatever you do, don't call it 'work'. "call it 'service'." and you’ll seehow you start to live another way. it’s an opportunityfor your development. and if you're there,

it’s not by mistake.don't have expectations in life, don't have expectationsbut never lose the passion. what has got me hereis not that i’m better or worse, it’s the passionthat i put into things. i deeply love what i do. the developmentof a holistic quantum consciousness. understandingthat everything is connected, joined. this is what buddha said, so whatever we think,

any thought we create never dies. nothing goes to waste in the universe,nothing falls to the wayside. where to start?as children of our parents. freeing them of the responsibilityof the education we received. freeing them of any resentmenttowards them. freeing themfrom having to love us how we want. freeing them from the needthat we must take care of them. in fact,there are real active relationships where the child expectshis mother to love him

as she wants him to love his mother. do you get me? your mum loved you as she could,she didn’t know better. don’t get het up about it. obviously, as parents of our children, be aware that they receiveall our information, teaching them that any relationshipis a unique opportunity for experience, teach them not to manipulateto control others and to live in freedom.

in other words, in a relationship i express myselfwith it and become myself with it. i don't intendto get anything out of it. because if i intend to get somethingfrom it i will start to manipulate. and this is called "violence". the laboratory of life. the crucible where everything starts. the womb. but here we need to saysomething very important.

very, very important. until now,the mother and the child... the mother and the child.what about the father? to the father, we say, "you're the coca-cola,the spark of life." no, no, no. no, no, no, no. so, you're the spark and that's it?no. the importance of the fatheris being demonstrated more and more

because we are enteringan area of epigenetics, the importanceof the emotionally involved father. when a couple says"we’re pregnant", i say "good, you're doing well". not “she's pregnant”,but "we’re pregnant". the child receives this. and you cannot imaginejust how far it reaches. it is not a duality; it is the trinity: mother, child, father.

if the trinity goes well,the child goes well. if the trinity has emotional coherence, the child is ok. this is the first act of love,the first seed to avoid future violence. here. because although the informationwe get from our ancestors is toxic, toxic, toxic, in the crucible of lifeeverything is purified,

everything is transformed, if the parents have their childrenin full awareness. thoughts, feelings and emotionsare also the child's nourishment. the consciousness of the parentsdetermines that of their children. the importance of knowingthat we transmit information. the importance of transcending iton the understanding that they too were conditionedby their experiences and worlds. the importance of the fatherduring pregnancy. and thank you.

i don't know who it is, but thank you. men like flowers very much. and me, i’m a flower geek. and i have a wonderful garden. i spend hours in it. i talk to my flowers, i motivate them. and they answer me. one day, i remember talkingto the guy that looks after my garden.

"we have to pull that plant up”,they wanted to build this wall. and i said, “no,that plant's a survivor, put it here." "but, enric, you know it can't betransplanted now; it'll die." “just do it,” i said.and he transplanted it. “put it here, on the other side." and after a few days it had dried up.“i told you so.” “just a minute, just a minute." and i said to the plant,"but you’re the biggest fighter i know. you can't just up and die.how are you dying?

don't leave me as a stupid.live!” and the next day,as sure as i'm standing here now, there was a flower and a leaf. ok? thanks.